Kyun sach ka sabak sikhaye
Jab sach sun bhi na paye
Sach koi bole toh tu
Niyam kanoon bataye
These lines from a famous hindi movie song, make me feel like so connected to it. People call me assertive and direct. I say on the face what i don't like.May be that's not the way it should be in this diplomatic world, but that's me. Over last few months am seeing such diplomatic people around me who wants to be safe. They would choose not to say directly what bothers them or what makes them happy.
My biggest problem, if I don't like anything I will say that on the face may be politely or sometimes direct. I know that hurts the other person but no matter which ever way I choose they will be hurt. Who wants to take the feedback? No one.
I have lost friends because of thist but am happy that those who are with me now. friends & relatives, are the ones who understand this. those who don't are free to stay away.
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